BAD DATES LIST We're building a Bad Dates List to help keep you and others safe by making information about dangerous and risky dates available to everyone in the community. To be notified by email when the Bad Dates List is live, sign up for a free Ask Avery membership. Sign Up Share the Bad Dates List with an image below. Your Bad Date List submission is anonymous. We do not report incidents submitted here to law enforcement. If you want help reporting something that happened to you, you can contact us for support. We prioritize publishing bad dates that involve violence, assault, or any type of physical wellness or safety threat.